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How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex If so, there is a lot that you and your wife probably discuss throughout the day. Your conversation topics may cover work, family, and the bills. What about sex? Do you and your husband talk about sex? If not, it may be something that you need to discuss with him. One of the biggest signs that a conversation is needed is if you are currently unhappy in the bedroom. As much as you may want to talk to your husband about making improvements in the bedroom, yo

Dating after the age of 40 may have all the appeal of a root canal, but it’s a good way of getting back into the dating market, especially if you’re busy and have no desire to pursue the same dating venues you did when you were young.  Internet dating offers better odds for finding that special someone because the people using online dating sites are actively looking for companionship and love,  just like you.
If you’re new to the online dating scene, these tips can make the search a little easier. 

1. Don’t be afraid. Dating again may seem intimidating at first but nearly everyone feels that way in the beginning. Nearly 40 million Americans visit online dating sites every month. Almost half of online-personals users are 35 to 50, with the fastest-growing group of online dating participants is over 55.
2. Keep an open mind and an optimistic attitude. If you’ve got a grudge against the opposite sex because of your ex , wait until it subsides. Deal with the past and get over it. Resentment and hostility is almost impossible to hide, so start fresh with a positive attitude.
3. Enthusiasm and a sense of humor go a long way in attracting someone. Emphasize that you like to have fun. Energy is attractive, as is a positive attitude. Save the dry sarcasm for when you’ve gotten to know someone enough to know they will appreciate it.
4. Communicate like a sales person. After all, you’re selling you!  Landing a great relationship is simply a matter of unleashing your innate salesmanship. Talk yourself up by emphasizing your good qualities. Ask a friend how they would describe you to a potential mate and use that as a starting point. In your online descriptio, do offer specific details that will catch the eye of your potential partner and distinguish you from the crowd. If you like Russell Crowe movies or read every Stephen King novel, say so, you’ll surely find a kindred spirit out there.
5. Finally, realize dating is a numbers game.  You may not meet your match within the first few dates, but don’t give up.  Give yourself time and go out with a wide variety of people.  The more you put yourself out there, the better your chances of meeting a compatible partner.

Often with online dating, someone is interested in someone, but the feeling is just not mutual? So, what should we do when this occurs? Do you let them know? Do you ignore or block them? Do you immediately delete your profile?

Gentle Let Down or Nasty Put Down?

I have, in the past, sent a few rejection letters. Once, I had a gentleman I work with send me a message. Other times I have had someone message me multiple times. Both times I tried to be polite and let them down in a gentle, nice way.

I hadn’t really thought too much about the concept of a rejection letter until I got this from a guy: “Please NEVER contact me again. I am not at all interested in you.”

Wow, yeah, he used the word please, but was that a little harsh? Here’s the kicker – I never did contact him. I never emailed him, never winked or wooed, never did anything except look at his profile. That alone tells me to discount what he is saying, obviously, this guy has issues.

When is a Rejection Letter Appropriate?

This got me thinking…when is a rejection letter appropriate, and when is it just mean? Do you tend to ignore messages from people you aren’t interested in or do you feel that if they took the time to write you, the least you can do is write back?

I have no idea what the guy who messaged me was thinking. I don’t know if he was trying to be a jerk, or if he thinks he’s a fantastically nice guy for letting me know that I should not waste my time looking at his profile (and oh yes, I blocked him!) I would like to believe that he had good intentions….but how do OUR good intentions come across to the rejectee?

I Want to Hear From Our Readers!

I don’t have an answer today…I really want to hear from our readers. Have you sent rejection letters? Did you get responses to them? Have you received rejection letters? Were they nice or mean? How did they make you feel?